If you are the parent of a child diagnosed with ASD or ADHD ( any type); if you are drowning under a weight of expert opinion that seems to do very little for your child, if your family is sinking, your sanity in question, your Aspy is sad and your school is no help - fear not; life is about to look up. We are mums who have been caring for our Aspies for a long time and more through good luck than design, have found a few methods that we think work. We are not doctors or behaviourists or anything else of the sort. It has been hard work, and it has required reading, research, consistency and routines which have spanned years- but we have found ways to have happy aspies who have a social life. Peace reigns mostly in our homes. If you would like to come along on the journey, we will be sharing our methods and the tools we have discovered which help us and will help you as well.